Could my parents be splitting up?

My parent have been together for about 25 years. They are usually fine and I sometimes walk in on them...you know. So I thought they were fine. But they often have blazing arguments. They don't just shout and slam doors and forget about it. They drag it on for about 2 hours of full on shouting. They scream about selling the house, divorcing etc. My dad does try to leave it because even though he gets angry, he still does want to be with my mum, but I'm not sure whether she just says things in the heat of the moment, or she actually doesn't want to be with him anymore. Sometimes I think they'd be happier separated, but I know they'd both be unhappy if they actually did it. I wondered if this was a sign they were breaking up?


I go to a private school and if they did, I don't know if we could afford it anymore. I know it's selfish but I love my school and friends.Could my parents be splitting up?
Sweetie, this is not something you need to worry about. This is between your parents and you just have to trust that they'll make the right decision. Parents fight. If they do divorce, know that it's NOT your fault. If they stay together, this might just be a rough time and they'll get through it. Either way, if you need reassurance, don't be afraid to approach them and tell them, ';I've noticed you're fighting a lot.'; They will reassure you, I'm certain. Either way, do not ever think it's your fault and make sure that whatever happens, you let them both know you love them.





As for your schooling and whatnot, I'm certain they'll try to maintain it if they can. If something happens that it can't be afforded anymore, accept the decision with grace. Change is not always a bad thing.Could my parents be splitting up?
Maybe they are just going through a bad patch,a lot of couples do. My sister and her hubby argues like that but they will never split up.


You need to wait til they have another argument and just shout as loud as you can.......please STOP all this arguing i cant take it anymore!!!


They are wrong to do this in front of you,but some parents dont think. Maybe if you do that they will then realise and it will help them to sort their troubles out.





Good luck!!
Sometimes its hard to see your parents go thorough this. But maybe this is just one of those fight and everything will be fine later. Always remember that all this that is going on its not your fault. They are just human, you will understand when you have a relationship. My opinion is that the best thing is to split up, you want to see them happy and sometimes begin together is not the answer to begin happy. You will still be able to see both of them but they both will be happy in there own way.