My mam and dad split up with they ever talk again?

It was about a year ago now they split up, I live with my dad and miss my mam.


I try to go to her house as much as I can but I have school, then coursework, and still want to go out.


I feel bad what shall I do?





Also, will they ever be friends or speak properly again?My mam and dad split up with they ever talk again?
well its not for us to answer but i got divorced once and my daughter lives with me, it tacked my x-husband about 1-2 weeks for us to be friends again, to tell you the truth we are better of being divorced as we don't argue and we share more secrets and trust each other much much more than ever before. our daughter is perfectly fine and is over it as we spend more time with her to.My mam and dad split up with they ever talk again?
It gets me so angry when I read about situations like yours and I really do wish I could get your parents together and bang their heads together. No child should ever feel as if they are in the middle of 2 parents that no longer get along and even if they don't want to socialise with each other ever again, being civil is the least they can do especially when they have brought a child into this world and clearly a lovely one at that.


Please do not feel bad about not being able to see you mum as much as you want to, your mum should be making efforts to come to you too. Even if she cannot go to your dads house there are plenty of other places she could take you to or meet you at.


You poor thing. You clearly love both parents very much and are no doubt feeling very torn by whats happening.


I cannot promise they will ever be friends or that they will be on speaking terms again but I sincerely hope for your sake they learn to put whatever has happened behind them and recognise in the middle of this mess is their child who needs them both. Have you tried to talk to them about how you feel? Its worth having a go, you have nothing to lose but plenty to gain. Good luck.
I am sorry to hear about this. It is a predicament many people have to deal with now since there are so many divorces ( aprox 1.1 million a year). There is not much you can do. Let both parents know you love them and the other parent and try to talk to each one about how you are feeling. Hopefully they will try to accommodate you and your psychological needs. If not understand that none of this is your fault and that relationships are not easy to understand. You have two parents that are dealing with a lot of changes in their lives so this is a hard time for them also. So try to talk to them and stay positive.
I'm really sorry to know you have so many problems and hurt feelings about your mom and dad. One thing for you to do is speak to a school counselor and ask her some of these questions and maybe she can help you get a better understanding of your parents situation. Another thing is to talk to your dad and tell him how much you miss your mother. Also tell your mother how much you miss her too. I know how rough it really is because my parents went through this type of situation many years ago. As a child it is hard to understand because you love them both and now that they are separated it is more lonesome for you not having both of your parents at home helping you with your needs in life. I know you want them both together and talking reasonable again, but sometimes those things can't happen because of their bitterness they have between each other. You have to learn to be strong and to pray to God to guide you each and everyday with all of your thinking and to keep you safe and teach you how to be a good person. Ask Him to heal all of your family wounds and help make things normal again. Thank Him for being with you and protecting you and your family. You can even talk to Jesus, by just telling Him how you feel. He will comfort you and help you. I hope this will be of some help to you and all of your family.
you miss your mam BUT you have school course work and still want to go out? my advice visit your mam more often you only get 1 mam. my mam disappeared for 37 years when i finally found her she was 65 dying of a terminal illness ,we had just 5 years together ,visit your mam ,your friends will still be there for you.