After splitting up with my gf of 2 yrs , i have been going out and gone with a couple of girls?

i have been split up 3 weeks now , and have found myself trying pull anything that moves and succeeding on three seperate occasions , i still love my ex but i know it will never work out , whats making me want to do this and should i be doing it so soon after a hurrendous break up ( please view old questions to get a better understanding) , what makes people try to get over someone by doing this and ultimately hurting more people with this reign of terror ?After splitting up with my gf of 2 yrs , i have been going out and gone with a couple of girls?
don't know. I'm facing it now. one friend told to me that men used to go out and drink when they brake up, while women used to lie in bed and cry.


you believe that all those contents from the outside and all those new people and girls will help you forgetting faster.


I still love my ex, but our will never work. it is not important what are you doing if you really decided to forget her. it seems to me that you still forces your self to decide to forget her. so no new girl will help you until you don't decide.After splitting up with my gf of 2 yrs , i have been going out and gone with a couple of girls?
What i think you are doing is you are going with anything that moves (your own words) because you are hurting! your seeking comfort in another womens arms and by doing things with them.


People get over relationships in different ways, some people do this, some people cry alot and stay in bed all day and some people just get on with their lives. but sounds like your way of coping to me!
Don't worry babe, this is totally natural. The pain and upset you are feeling from splitting with your girlfriend you are trying to suppress by pulling loads of other girls.


There is nothing wrong or weird about this but you have obviously realised that it doesn't make you feel better, it in fact makes you feel worse.


What you have to do is be on your own for a while, go out with your friends and have fun but don't automatically try to pull some random girl to try and get your ex out of your head because it just wont work. Give it time babe, the pain will go away and you will be able to move on from this.


Good luck babe xxx
You are only looking for confirmation that you are still fanciable...it will wear off in a while......nothing wrong in dating lots of girls, just be straight with them. Take your time though, there is nothing worse than trying to form a new relationship whilst still on the rebound from the old !!!!!!
Its not about being wrong or right, its about coping with the pain. The only way you will get over this is by letting time run its course and seeing otehr people. In time, the effects of the break-up will be non-existent.
its a reaction u feel lonly so u look for company!! basicly u used to having ur gf there but now she is gone u look for a replacment!! its normal but you will regreat it if you end up with someone that you really shouldnt have!! so take your time and u will get what u want